Pregnancy & Abortion: All You Wanted to Know

Hi my names Megan and I just turned 13 like 15 days ago. I had sex for my first time 10 days ago and I think I’m pregnant. I thought I got my period today but it was way to light to be my period. I’m not really that much scared anymore because it was my stupid mistake and I have to live with it. I just don’t know how to tell my mom and dad. Thats the only part that scares me to death. Does ANYONE have ANY suggestions on how I can tell my parents?

Dear Megan,

I understand that this is a tough situation you are facing and talking to your parents seems really scary right now.  I recommend taking a pregnancy test soon to see if you are pregnant and then talking to your parents regardless of what the results are on the test.  

Here are a few facts for you to think about: 

Sexual activity at your age holds serious risks and consequences that you may not be equipped to handle.  10,000 U.S. teens become infected with a sexually transmitted disease every day and condoms do not provide 100% protection against these disease. 

One disease in particular, HPV, can be spread even with condom use.  HPV infection is generally considered to be the most prevalent viral STD in the United States, and is implicated in more than 90 percent of all cervical cancer cases and nearly 5,000 deaths every year.  I know this is a lot of information to digest but if you are sexually active then you should know the risks involved when you choose to have sex.  I hope you talk to your parents about the choices you have made so they can help guide you to better decisions that involve waiting until you are married before you become sexually active again. 

 If you feel that approaching your parents seems too hard or impossible I suggest writing a letter to your mom and dad explaining your situation and how you need their guidance right now.  Your parents will probably be upset at first but whatever their reaction is, it comes from fear and worry about you.  Your parents are your best resource no matter what the test results are.  You can also call the pregnancy help line 800-395-HELP for more advice on talking to your parents and other questions you may have.  I hope this helps you and that you consider waiting until you are married before you become sexually active again.

Hannah 

Can pregnant woman consume multivitamin which contain Vitamin A 1500mcg?  Thanks, Ann

Ann, that is an excellent question.  The safest option is to take either a prescription of prenatal vitamins or even over-the-counter prenatal vitamins.  You’ll find that pharmaceutical companies/vitamin manufacturers have precisely packaged together the correct vitamin doses which you’ll need during your pregnancy and which will not harm your developing baby.

Vitamin A (retinol) is naturally found in eggs, milk, cheese, yogurt, liver and certain fish (oily fish, including mackerel). Because it is fat soluble, your body will store away for future use any of the vitamin intake it can’t use.  Typically, a healthy female body will only need roughly 0.6 milligrams of Vitamin A per day.

Vitamin A is essential for helping you see better in dim light as well as helping keep your immune system fit to fight infections.  Vitamin A also helps keep your skin &  mucus linings healthy.

Too much Vitamin A (over 1.5 milligrams per day) has been thought to actually weaken your bones and make them more susceptible to breaking later in life.

Large amounts of Vitamin A taken during pregnancy may hurt your developing child.  As a result, it is not normally recommended to take standard multi vitamin pills while you are pregnant–nor should you regularly eat foods (such as liver) which are naturally high in Vitamin A.

We highly recommend you consult with your physician or OB/GYN before beginning any vitamin regimen during your pregnancy.

Thank you again for the question!

Hannah

Hi there. I have a few questions concerning emergency contraceptives and late periods. I am not on birth control and about 2 months ago I was concerned that my partner and I had not protected ourselves well enough, so I went to the local clinic and got an emergency contraceptive (Plan B) pill. I waited about 2 weeks and received my period, but about 3 days after I finished my period the same thing happened again, and I ended up needing another emergency contraceptive. After the second e.c. pill, I had, what I think was spotting, but am not sure because it lasted for about 3 days and required me to wear a tampon (almost like I had had my period again). I was due to start my period on August 12th and when I didn’t start it I waited till the 16th and took a pregnancy test (ept) and it read negative. That was a week ago and I STILL have not started my period. Is it possible that my body just got confused with taking two e.c.’s within 3 weeks of each other…or did I take the pregnancy tests to early..? I am very worried!!! Thank You, Muriel.

Dear Muriel,

Thank you for the question.  The Plan B^® pill is essentially a very high dosage of regular birth control pills.  As such, yes, in high doses it definitely can “mess up” your regular monthly cycle.

Side Effects:

The Plan B^® pill may cause temporary side effects including headache, fatigue, nausea & low abdominal pain.  Additional side effects including breast tenderness, vomitting, dizziness and diarrhea may also occur.

Plan B & the Menstrual Cycle:

Taking the Plan B^® pill does not bring on menstruation.  Note that you may experience some spotting shortly after taking the pill, but this is not your regular period.  Your next menstrual period will typically come on time (or a couple days early or late) & the bleeding may be lighter or heavier than normal.  However, overdosage of the Plan B^® pill can increase the probability & nature of side effects as well as cause more noticeable changes to your monthly menstrual cycle.

How does Plan B work?

The Plan B^® pill may prevent the release of an egg from the ovary or it may prevent the sperm & egg from uniting.  The Plan B^® pill may also prevent the fertilized egg from attaching to the wall of the uterus (i.e. an early abortion).  Once the fertilized egg has attached to the uterus wall, the Plan B^® pill is not effective.  The Plan B^® pill treatment involves taking the first tablet immediately following intercourse with the second tablet taken 12 hours later.

Muriel, having said all of that, I would venture to guess that taking the emergency contraceptives merely messed up your regular cycle.  However, there is always the chance that you may be pregnant.  An e.p.t. home pregnancy test won’t really be accurate until usually the week after your missed period should have begun.  EPT home pregnancy tests rely on your body’s production of a certain pregnancy hormone, and that production level varies from woman to woman.

So, most likely you are not pregnant; however, just to be safe, I would continue taking a pregnancy test–once a week for a couple of weeks.

One more thing to be aware of … the Plan B^® pill is quite a high dose of regular birth control medication.  Taken occasionally, reports seem to indicate it is not too dangerous over the long term.  However, when taken frequently or taken in lieu of standard birth control pills for any time a person thinks they might have had unprotected sex, those high dosages of birth control medication may have some long term unwanted side effects.

Just to give you a heads up,

Hannah